Cheshbon Hanefesh

30-Day Cheshbon Hanefesh Habit Builder

Recognition is everything.

Spend a few minutes each day learning to notice your reactions, question what's underneath them, recognize the middah at work, and judge yourself honestly.

You are not trying to become perfect in 30 days. You are training yourself to really see yourself.

NOTICEQUESTIONFIND THE MIDDAHJUDGE HONESTLYCATCH IT AGAIN
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How the daily practice works

01

One moment a day

Choose a single moment from your day that deserves another look.

02

Look underneath it

Ask why you reacted, why it mattered, and what you really wanted.

03

Find the middah

Kinah, gaavah, kavod, taavah, the need to be right — or something else.

04

Judge honestly

Don't defend. Don't condemn. Just tell the truth and name what you saw.

DISCONNECT → DAAS → RECOGNITION → TIKKUN